On the evening of Thursday 16th April, my wife Mad became aware that she hadn't felt our baby move for a few hours. She
was almost 40 weeks pregnant - and the pregnancy had, up to this point, been completely trouble-free. We went into the
Royal London, where they scanned her immediately and told us that our daughter had died in utero.
After a few hours to process, we decided to induce labour. Mad was absolutely incredible - I will never forget how
strong she was. By Saturday morning, she had been fully dilated for several hours and was starting to seem unwell. The
safest course of action was to complete the delivery in theatre under general anaesthetic.
Our daughter Noa was delivered around 2pm on Saturday 18th April. The delivery itself was straightforward, but it
quickly became obvious in theatre how much Mad's condition had deteriorated. She had sepsis, plancental abruption and a
disorder called Disseminated Intravascular Coagulation, which prevented her blood from clotting. She started to
bleed heavily. Over a couple of hours, she lost nine litres of blood - around twice as much as she would normally have
in her body at any one time.
She would certainly have died if she hadn't been supported by extensive blood transfusions - or if she hadn't been in
the care of an excellent and experienced team of clinicians. Even with sufficient blood on hand, the situation was very
serious. She was transferred from the operating theatre to the Intensive Treatment Unit, where she remained in a
medically-induced coma for several days. She has since been steadily recovering, getting a little better every day. We
are hopeful that she will make a full recovery.
So many of our friends and family have offered us their help over the last few weeks. We are very grateful and will
definitely need you over the months and years to come. For now, we would like to offer a practical outlet for that love
and support. So we've created this website to encourage people to give blood, and to track the blood that has been
donated in support of Mad and in memory of our daughter, Noa Ruth Maxwell.
Some of you may donate only once - which would still be greatly appreciated - but I hope that some of you will make a
habit of it, as regular donors are much more useful for maintaining good supplies. For those of you who cannot give
blood (or who are feeling particularly generous), we've also set up a fundraiser - details below.
We will mourn our daughter for the rest of our lives. I also know that I came within an inch of losing both
my daughter and my wife - something that I would never have recovered from. So I will be forever grateful to
everyone who donated the blood that saved Mad's life. And, if you are able, I would truly appreciate it if you would
take the time to do the same, so that others can benefit from the life-saving medical care that they need.
Dave, 5th May 2026